05/03/2025
One of those moments where you think, "damn, I wish I was recording that"
Because it was a super clear situation.
There was a commotion...
Mae went from relaxed, to super tight to the point where you could see that energy swell up in her, then you saw it ease out into what you see in this picture.
Situationally, I'm not a fan...
I hate that she feels that way honestly but I also understand that she has her reasons.
That's also why when we went out for the first time today, my brother just happened to appear.
She clearly is not a fan, understandable considering the circumstances, but still not her job.
So we made the best of the situation as it played out.
No matter what we do in life we'll never be able to avoid situations that make our dogs uncomfortable.
For us with Mae most of that happens in home because associations were build and she's smart enough to understand what's been an actual risk to her safety.
We continue to work with her through the moments as they occur to show her as many times as we need to that we have her.
When stressful moments happen I can't tell you just how important handling it out can be.
If done incorrectly it very easily charges the behavior, that's how these things got built to this point in the first place.
It's a lot like driving up an icy hill...
You have to always make sure your have enough traction.
You may slip here and there, lose a bit of ground but keep moving and keep climbing.
Some slip all the way to the bottom and give up...
The point is to everyone trying out there, I see you...
You are not alone in this.
It's no secret that our "home" life is not ideal for situations like this, but we continue to build with both dogs.
That's what matters, the gains we're do make outweigh the losses and we make adjustments as much as we need to.
I will spare you the "if I can do it anyone one can" speal...
Because the reality is not everyone can...
But, what I can tell you is there is almost always hope.
We get what we give...
These two dogs get the best me I can offer, I get the best them in return.
That's how we continue to gain in situations we shouldn't be able to.
So all I want to tell you,
Is that it is possible...