It works if you work it...
No matter how you work it...
Does it make my day today any easier?
Not at all.
Does it help bigger picture?
Absolutely.
This is real life...
This is daily life.
Take the opportunity to learn...
Take the opportunity to work.
It may take some extra time...
But it's worth it.
You and your partner will be better for it.
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Turns out they didn't leave at the time.
So again always be mindful.
I'm responsible for anything my dog does.
And also the chickens since I had let them out...
Chickens back in,
Ghost has to stick closer to me as a result.
So no body has to worry and everyone can enjoy themselves.
One thing I hear a lot of...
Myself included earlier on...
Is the build in frustration and essentially resenting others in what should be shared space.
"Those kids shouldn't be running around screaming"
And other variations of that...
It's our responsibility to handle our own animals.
If we can't do that...
We shouldn't be in that position with our animals yet...
It's just that simple...
Work the solution...
Not the problem...
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Relatable situations...
If we've had in depth conversations...
Then you already know...
This particular example let's use reactivity.
You're the dog.
The itch is whatever your dog reacts poorly to.
Frustration builds...
We can't easily extinguish it.
We can't ignore it.
We have to have the patience to work the solution...
Not the problem...
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A lot of times in training, we want to see the flashy...
I get it,
It's cool...
But to me we don't acknowledge this stuff enough.
For him this is the hardest thing we've worked.
Environmentally it's been a challenge.
But through work and consistency...
These things are possible.
It took as long as he's been with me to associate this crate to this level...
Why's that matter?
Well if you saw that recent video with the dog starting a fire with a power pack...
In Ghost's case that's more likely.
He's still not as good at it as Corlie was, or Mae is now.
But he's better than he was...
We've had plenty of set backs...
People thinking they're helping and so on.
Also people knowing they aren't helping...
He's not a dog that has to do it much...
But there are times when it is necessary.
Our dogs aren't perfect, in reality they were never meant to be just because of what we do.
Ghost is a dog that's off lead capable in some new neighborhood who can hold a down as people and dogs go by.
But still has struggles in his own home...
"I'll meet you where you're at, not where I expect you to be"
We're dog people just like anyone else...
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Gits and shiggles time...
Had the idea to do this as I was prepping dinner.
Baby gates.
Gates.
Pens.
Fences.
Doors.
Crates.
Vehicle doors...
Whatever they can pass through is a boundary...
This isn't on a well you have to go first so the dog knows you're alpha type stuff...
This is just you don't go until I know you have a brain type stuff...
This may look different for different scenarios.
For example Ghost waiting in his crate while food is prepped he's usually in a down in his crate with the door open.
This is where he struggles the most these days as people and other dogs walk through.
It's a skill we constantly work on.
They can't come out all crazy either when they do get released.
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One week down with Mae and this is where we're at.
As I was typing this out her REM sleep started.
Then someone went to the fridge just outside of our room and she woke up...
Looked for a few seconds as the noises continued.
And put her head back down.
Keep in mind we live in a multi family home,
Doors open and close a lot.
Other dogs running around freely at times...
It's a lot.
It would be nice if we could just verbalize these things to her,
But that's not how this works...
We communicate as we can when it's needed (and sometimes when it's not 👀😂)
And we all settle in to what this new normal is...
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Super exciting right?
Only took a week to achieve it...
As she settles she get's more time,
And more freedom.
She has a tendency to build pretty quick and do somersaults into us.
Which is adorable, but...
If we respond we build it.
It also get's Ghost built up.
And then a competition of sorts starts.
The idea is it doesn't have to be exciting every time she comes out...
In fact when she's out we want both dog's to be settled.
For Ghost it doesn't mean it's time to play.
Just keep doing what you're doing...
For Mae it's allowing her to be able to settle in.
Minimizing the time where she has to be contained because that's where she feels the most secure.
Nicole did some of that one on one with her earlier in the week.
The past few days her, Ghost, and I have been practicing this in small doses.
Previous to this it was without me on the bed without the somersaults happening 😅
They still happened today, but both Ghost and I ignored her...
And she settled down for a nap.
These are the little moments for day to day life.
When it comes to her foundation with us personally...
We're just taking our time to mix the concrete.
It's officially been 1 week.
We've learned some very important things about eachother.
And while our brains is spinning about her further development.
It's so important to get this stuff right first.
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A lot of time on lead...
A lot of time with food in a pouch...
A lot of time on the prong...
And a lot of time with a toy stuffed under my armpit...
Is it perfect?
No...
Does it have to be?
No.
To be honest we just threw this together just as we finished up at the barn.
Meaning we both just worked a few hours before this too.
We still can't do this just everywhere.
Some environments are still a struggle.
Nothing replaces the time, effort, and energy we put in.
If you don't do the work...
You won't get the results...
Either way it shows...
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⚠️*Trigger warning*⚠️
Aversive Fart Noises...
Do not watch post...
You will see an uncomfortable dog...
If you're still reading this...
Why is this important?
I could just not make random fart noises...
But I can't stop others...
Just ask Ghost about people baby talking him...
And I'm not saying don't advocate for your animals...
But don't let that become an excuse either.
That doesn't mean flood them either...
Find a balance and work it where you can as you can.
We'll find a way to help her become more comfortable just like we did with Ghost.
Usually means finding a fun way to make it a game.
Without building her the other way...
Essentially to get the reaction you see from Ghost,
Which also took time...
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Have to call myself out for some bad parenting...
While my dogs were settled...
I added some stress...
Made some fart noises with my mouth and she got uncomfortable.
Ghost was not a fan of them originally either.
The point is you won't know just what may upset your dog.
She'll settle out take a nap.
And I'll be sneaking some less aversive fart noises into her activities here and there as a result...
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Free space is free time.
Free time is extremely useful...
These two are doing extremely well.
This is how we work out the dynamics of what our family is as we all settle in to the new normal.
It's crucial that I keep in mind what my personal value is to them as individuals.
I am ultimately a resource.
She came to me a few times for affection and I had to send her away.
Same rules apply to Ghost too who decided to move not long after this video into a position where he had to be touching me.
As much as I just want to snuggle and love up on these two.
Right now it's more important that we all share equal space.
We'll have plenty of time for individual cuddles as we go.
This is all within the first week, she's gradually earning more and more free time.
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Breakfast with Mae Mae
She understands the assignment
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Teamwork makes the dream work...
But it takes the work to get there.
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He filled up on junk today 😐😂
And that's ok.
Just took it out of his dinner ration.
This is how we work through moments.
Well at least part of it...
Simple exercise...
You've seen us do a few times now,
This is how it's applied.
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Mae learning what free space is and getting acclimated to her new home.
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Spent some time this morning hanging out.
Ghost was a bit more ramped up than she was this morning.
Both got some energy burned off..
Those little fish out of water hops though 😅😂😂
Honestly I'm looking forward to letting these two rip in open space.
But we're a little ways away from that.
She's starting to settle, starting to take in the new environment at least
Starting to wiggle butt a lot more.
Nicole will be spending some time with her one on one this afternoon while Ghost and I are on barn duty.
Just keeping things in small doses.
She does burn out a little quicker than he does.
So we have to be mindful of that.
The goal is to keep it balanced.
So they can be settled in each other's presence.
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I like these two together.
Still keeping them separate inside.
As we build her up to more freedom.
Taking turns in small doses.
Making sure that no one gets too excited.
While letting them learn each other.
This is part of there first play session here.
They even settled out on there own.
Gave eachother room for potty breaks.
And shared a few sniffs.
Did well around the resources...
Water, and us.
I'm very much looking forward to what we'll accomplish.
But we will be building slowly.
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Probably an unpopular opinion.
Unfortunately we've also set a low bar.
For dogs "under" these classes as well.
Reality is all dogs should know this stuff.
No matter what the breed classification is...
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Road Dogs Rehab I was messing around with the set up of it and I stood up and he did it the first time.
We are in the market for better crates.
But I'll take this as a starting point 😅😂
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Trying something a bit different.
Just to see what happens... 🤷🏻♂️😂