12/06/2024
I write educational posts, story posts, history posts and more but today my post is a plea. It's about understanding change in the horse world. I hope it will cause readers to do something or say something about how horsemanship has been diminished. We have experienced a shift away from the innate physicality of horses and riding to an emotionally centered idea of relationship with horses that often becomes dysfunctional.
Human thoughts and feelings are vastly different from equine thoughts and feelings. The biggest difference is that we humans are carnivore predators and horses are prey animals. This difference is denied, opposed and rejected by many riders and horse owners today. We predators are scary to horses. We are unpredictable, have hidden agendas and are demanding. Horses are none of these. They are very predictable, incapable of hidden agendas and accommodating.
I find it offensive and cruel how humans assume that horses are like us. So many humans impose and demand that horses act more like humans. On a recent post of mine someone commented, "They're Big, Strong, Personable Friends. They're not machines to be trained." This was on a post with a video of someone who felt this way and got kicked in the face by a horse because they completely misunderstood when the horse was telling her to back off with her invasive relationship demands.
Not long ago life in general was more physical on all levels. People were required to have so many more physical skills in every part of life. Diapering a baby was challenging with pins that could stick an infant, or if pinned poorly the diaper would come off causing an unfortunate mess. Today, anyone can safely and successfully diaper a baby thanks to Velcro. People could cook. There were no microwave ovens to heat pre packaged meals. And people didn't drug horses so they could ride them. They trained them to be safe and rideable. The summary impact of all of these examples of change and more is that today people are much less physical.
Horses need physicality. I see so many horses that are overweight and under worked. They are kept like birds in a cage. They suffer from the nonphysical human lifestyle imposed on them. Their owners feel they are very good owners because they give all the right supplements, call the vet over a scratch and buy their horse treats and presents that have little or no meaning for the horse.
We have bred horses for thousands of years to do work for us. This purpose is in their genes, yet today owners deny horses the work and exercise they desperately need. We expect these prey animals to be companion animals and demand they act like dogs or cats, which are both predators and better suited to be human companion animals. Worst of all, the compliance and adaptability humans have bred into horses over centuries is mistaken for friendship. Human expectations of horses today are devoid of understanding of the authentic nature of the horse.
My friend Mary said something recently that really got to me. She pointed out that in the horse world, we have lost our sense of honor as a community. Today people feel entitled to relate to their horses as "personable friends ... not machines to be trained" and social correctness supports this painful illusion. Social correctness and authentic horsemanship have almost nothing in common. If you think otherwise, you are probably abusing your horse with phony "kindness". Stop doing that.