10/18/2025
When I'm working with a reactive dog, one of my top priorities is to build the handler's confidence first, because their energy drives the dog's behaviour. Tension in the body creates tension on the leash; in turn, the dog (understandably) interprets that tension as a need to be on alert. The result is a dog who is in a state of constant tension and hyper-vigilance that makes them perceive everything around them as unsafe. The lack of confidence in the handler exacerbates that, and voila, you have a vicious cycle that feels impossible to get out of.
To help build handler confidence, the videos I share of our sessions are purposely designed to show their successes - those "I did it!" moments in which they handled a trigger situation calmly and confidently, and their dog responded by following them. I do this, because my clients do struggle with confidence (which is understandable, in light of what they've been dealing with), they do watch these videos, and they *need* to see themselves succeeding. When they see visual proof, that gives them greater confidence - which, in turn, builds trust and confidence in their dog.
Have a great day and a great weekend, and remember to stay calm and lead on.