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Murph & Me Force-Free Dog Training + Behaviour Amber-Jade: Qualified Animal Behaviourist & Trainer CertCAB, DipCABT, C.C.A.B

We have to respect the breed. Great read. 🙌🏻
20/06/2025

We have to respect the breed. Great read. 🙌🏻

🚨 Let’s Talk Truth — Before It’s Too Late 🚨
For too long, the truth about Pit Bulls has been buried under layers of myth, denial, and misinformation. But the consequences of that silence are mounting — with devastating results for dogs, people, and the breed itself.

This collaboration between the Pit Bull Federation of South Africa and Taryn Blyth (Kommetjie Canine College) pulls no punches. It’s time to stop sugar-coating and start telling the truth — because understanding the breed’s origin, purpose, and limitations is the only way to protect it from extinction by ignorance.

📢 Read. Share. Speak honestly. The future of the breed depends on it. 🐾
The Pit Bull Federation, as well as responsible behaviour professionals, trainers and rescues, have been trying to educate the public for years on the realities of owning a pit bull. However, too many fans of the breed, amateur trainers and unethical rescue
organizations have continued to perpetuate myths that contradict the very nature of these dogs and set them up to fail. This post is a collaboration between The Pit Bull Federation of South Africa and Taryn Blyth, animal behaviorist and dog trainer (Kommetjie Canine College). We ask that all like-minded professionals and interest
groups share and support this attempt to break the silence and educate the public around the realities of the breed, to prevent further tragedy. There have been far too many human fatalities over the last decade due to the refusal to accept what a pit bull is
and what they were bred to do and even more dog fatalities. Refusal to face the truth does not help this breed and will continue to fuel the crisis, which has already resulted in calls for a breed ban.

Bred to fight and kill other dogs:
Most of the dog breeds that we have today were originally selected for a particular type of “work”. For example, we all know that herding dogs were selected to herd livestock, retrievers were bred to retrieve game, pointers were selected to locate and keep game
still until it could be shot, and terriers were bred to catch and kill rodents. Somehow, while we are happy to talk about the origins of all other breeds and to accept that this has a unique influence on the fundamental nature of the dog, there is much denial about the history of the Pit Bull and the actual repercussions of genetically enhancing their motivation and ability to fight and kill their own kind. Pit Bulls were genetically selected to be able to fight and kill other dogs and to be extremely good at doing so. While it is not the fault of the dogs themselves, but rather that of the people who
deliberately set about this endeavor, we cannot deny that genetically selecting a dog for such purposes has had a profound effect on their physical conformation as well as their behavioral and emotional disposition. Gameness (the desire to keep fighting no
matter what) was a highly sought after trait, strongly selected for in the breed’s development. They are NOT nanny dogs. They were NEVER originally bred to be family companions. They are, simply put, carefully formed and created to maim and kill their own species. Furthermore, this occupation for the dog is not something from the distant past, sadly it still happens all over the world to this day. The Pit Bull is a fairly recent breed and has VERY LITTLE history of being bred for companionship rather than fighting. They have not evolved away from their original form and function.

Genetically selected for dog-dog aggression
Being genetically selected for their propensity to fight and kill other dogs means that Pit Bulls are at FAR GREATER risk for developing dog-dog aggression than other breeds. No one denies that a border collie is more likely to herd children or joggers than a labrador and no one disputes that Labradors enjoy putting everything in their mouths. Again, with every other type of dog, we accept that the function they were selected for has an impact on their NORMAL, EXPECTED behavior. Of course there may be exceptions, but they are the exception and not the norm. While every dog may be an individual, a vital factor in assessing any behavior case and in fulfilling a dog’s needs, is knowing what
breed the dog is .Trying to enrich a Husky’s life by teaching them to retrieve would be laughable, but giving a bored Labrador the opportunity to fetch and carry things, could massively improve their quality of life. The form and function of a dog MATTERS and IS a
good predictor of behavioral preferences. Time and again we understand and accept this with every other breed on the planet and work according to this framework. People accept that border collies are at risk of herding and getting nippy with joggers or
children, we accept that recall can be a challenge for hounds, who like to follow their noses, we accept that Labradors tend to be more destructive than the average dog and we accept that allowing pet rats to run around with a Jack Russel probably isn’t the greatest idea. Yet, the stubborn notion that a Pit Bull is the same as any other dog when it comes to their risk for dog-dog aggression persists. This is a fundamental denial of reality, and it must stop.

Hard-wired to grab, bite and shake
The behavior pattern that has been modified in order to create dogs for various types of work, is the Predatory Motor Pattern (PMP). The PMP is what enables wild canids to feed themselves successfully and it is a hard-wired behavior sequence. It is not a learned behavior – it is part of the “hardware”. While dogs have evolved over thousands of years to be primarily scavengers and not hunters, remnants of the PMP of their wild ancestors remains. Through selective breeding, we have enhanced certain parts of this
behavior sequence and weakened other parts, in different ways, depending on the purpose the dog was designed for. We selected for FUNCTION and along the way a related physical form developed that aligned with that function.

The original and complete PMP is as follows:
ORIENT → EYE → STALK → CHASE → GRAB BITE → SHAKE BITE/KILL BITE → DISSECT → EAT
The Border Collie is probably one of the best examples of how humans tinkered with the predatory motor pattern in order to create a dog that would herd but not harm livestock. The border collie has a modified version of the PMP that goes like this:

EYE → STALK → CHASE (in exaggerated form and on repeat)

Border collies will rehearse this sequence of behavior until the cows come home – or the sheep, literally! They do not need any external rewards for this behavior as the chemical reactions in the brain that take place while they are engaged in this activity are internally reinforcing and make them feel GOOD. The same principle applies to other breeds: Pointers have exaggerated EYE → STALK behaviors, Labradors have a modified GRAB BITE behaviors and Flock guarding dogs that live amongst livestock have very weak, malleable or non-existent functional predatory behaviors (which is why the sheep don’t run from them and why, despite their size, they are seldom responsible for human or dog fatalities).

Unfortunately, the parts of the predatory sequence that have been selected for and exaggerated in Pit Bulls are:

EYE → SHAKE BITE/KILL BITE and sometimes DISSECT.

This shortened form of the PMP contains the initial sighting of the “prey” and goes straight into the shaking and killing bit. There is nothing in between, which is why attacks are often seemingly unpredictable and with little “warning” if you do not understand the breed of dog in front of you.
It is vital we understand that in the same way any other breed of dog gains internal reinforcement from carrying out their function and rehearsing their PMP (herding, pointing, chasing, retrieving etc) so does a Pit Bull. Pit Bulls ENJOY grabbing, shaking and ripping “prey” to pieces. They don’t need to be coerced, trained or abuse to enjoy this behavior – it is an inherent predisposition.

Incredible Strength, low reactivity threshold and high pain threshold
Pit Bulls have been selected for exaggerated muscle mass, making them incredibly strong dogs, even though they are not particularly large in comparison to many other breeds. Powerful bodies behind powerful jaws have been deliberately selected so that Pit Bulls can inflict maximum damage in a fight. Aside from the “gameness” mentioned earlier, Pit Bulls also have a tendency to react very quickly in specific situations: a pit bull that was expected to fight needed to engage quickly with an opponent – they could not afford to stand there and think about it first. A low reactivity threshold is common in all terriers (Jack Russells are notorious for jumping in first and asking questions later), but particularly risky in a dog with the strength and gameness of a Pit Bull. While it is
hard to definitively assess pain thresholds in dogs under normal circumstances, Pit Bulls are generally described as being “tolerant” of handling and not overly sensitive. When engaged in fighting, the chemical changes in the brain also affect the perception of pain and there are many reported cases of severely injured dogs continuing to fight relentlessly. Stopping a pit bull during a fight is incredibly difficult and almost impossible. Many people have sustained severe injuries trying to do so.

Socializing and Training cannot erase genetics
One of the biggest misunderstandings around the breed is the belief that socializing and training can override hard wired behaviour patterns. Added to this is the misconception that the type of aggression involved in severe attacks on other dogs and people is simply defensive in nature. There are many claims that there is no genetic basis for aggression and that Pit Bulls do not show higher levels of aggression than any other breed. The problem with these statements is that they are referring to DEFENSIVE aggression. Defensive aggression is a normal survival mechanism i.e. the ability to use aggression to protect oneself from a threat. Indeed, any dog of any breed is capable of defensive aggression if they are threatened, frightened or hurt. This is completely normal. However, defensive aggression is characterized by barking, growling, snarling, snapping, biting and releasing. Any dog from a chihuahua to a great dane is capable of this type of behavior in the “right” circumstances. Pit Bulls may be no more likely than any other dog breed to engage in this type of aggressive behavior. However, the severe attacks on other dogs and sometimes people, that result in hospitalization and death are not purely defensive in nature. These attacks involve repeated deep bites, shaking and tearing. In these attacks the Predatory Motor Pattern that is hard-wired into the breed takes over and the attacks become PREDATORY in nature. The dogs are not simply defending themselves – they are engaged in highly reinforcing behavior, which they can actually begin to seek out, once they have experienced it. Yes, all dogs can bite but most dogs do not put people in hospital or kill other dogs. The reality is that the vast
majority of dog bite fatalities the world over are due to Pit Bulls or Pit Bull type dogs. While good socialization definitely decreases the chances of any dog biting defensively, it does not erase the predatory motor pattern of that dog. Pit Bulls may be incredibly
“friendly” and tolerant with other dogs UNTIL something goes wrong. Too many people have learned the hard way that having a sociable Pit Bull does NOT mean their predatory motor pattern will not be triggered if they do get into an altercation with another dog.
Everyone assumes that their dog is the exception until it is too late, with tragic consequences.

If you love the breed, you need to accept them for who they are. If you love the breed, you need to set them up for success and not for failure. If you love your Pit Bull, do not put them in a situation where they will end up harming other dogs or people – because if
you love them, you do not want to lose them.


As your trainer & behaviourist I will always advocate for underlying pain. 🤍
18/06/2025

As your trainer & behaviourist I will always advocate for underlying pain. 🤍

‼️ If an “aggression expert” isn’t advocating for thorough investigation into possible pain as part of their work with you… they are NOT ethical! ‼️

This is a sensitive story, and as such names have been changed to protect my clients’ privacy and identity. The dog pictured below is mine.

Over the last couple of months I’ve been working with a family and their dog (we’ll call him “Benny”). A year ago, Benny turned from a loving family pet to suddenly guarding the lounge; anytime that someone made an unexpected move in the room or entered it, Benny would begin posturing and barking at them, which eventually escalated into jumping and grabbing at their clothes, and then bites that punctured the skin.

A physical examination at the vet didn’t yield any results, and Benny was taking multiple types of anxiety medication that didn’t touch his behaviour.

We started working together, and I asked them to have some scans done to further investigate pain. Behaviour changes are one of the first indicators of pain, but otherwise dogs are REALLY good at hiding pain and it can be easily missed, even in a vet exam.

Because they had already been to see the vet, I was met with some resistance. We did implement safety measures and some training strategies to try to help Benny feel more at ease in the lounge, but his behaviour wasn’t improving.

Eventually, Benny did have an MRI, and it was revealed that he has a chiari malformation in his brain - that is, part of his brain was pushing down into the spinal canal. We could have done all the training in the world but it wouldn’t have mattered, because this wasn’t a behaviour issue.

How many trainers would have slapped a shock collar on this poor dog, who was already suffering? How many would have simply said that he needed to learn boundaries or hear the word “no” and not looked any further? How many would say that it’s all well and good to use positive reinforcement, until it “doesn’t work” and then you need punishment?

It’s estimated that up to 80% of aggression cases have some kind of underlying medical issue. You NEED a behaviour expert who can liaise with your vet and who will advocate for *thorough* examination, not just a quick check over to tick a box.

It’s an unregulated industry. Be careful who you trust with your dog, even if they call themselves an expert or have tons of followers. And if your dog’s behaviour suddenly changes, they’re probably in pain.

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28/05/2025

TEACH KIDS TO BE DOG FRIENDLY

I’m often asked - “How can I make my dog more child friendly?”

The question really should be - “How can I make my child more dog friendly?”

Children don’t come with an inborn ability to know how to interact with dogs. It’s up to us to teach them.

It’s surprising that there aren’t more dog bites considering how often children are seen treating dogs like stuffed toys.

If you think about it, dogs are actually amazingly tolerant and patient with us. They try their best to communicate with us, in the only way they know how, through using their body language.

A dogs attempt to show us they’re uncomfortable, scared, stressed or anxious is so often completely ignored or not understood.

As parents, I believe it should be a non-negotiable responsibility to teach our children about how to respect and behave around dogs to keep both of them safe.

Always supervise children and dogs, even if a dog seems relaxed and friendly.

Here are some links to free, on-line resources if you’re looking for more information on how to keep children and dogs safe together -

https://kidsarounddogs.co.uk/pages/free-resources

https://www.gooddoginabox.com/top-20-ways-keep-kids-and.../

https://www.familypaws.com/resources/

https://www.cooperandkids.com

https://poochparenting.net/blog/

28/05/2025
27/05/2025

We have played with the predatory sequence in our dogs to make certain parts more or less prominent, so they could perform jobs for us.
When we look at breed traits and which part of this sequence our dogs like to perform best, we can then look at ways to better fulfil them.

Find the full video on this and outlets to fulfil each part on the membership.

24/05/2025

⚠️Food for thought…

20/05/2025

DOGS AND BABIES
Prepare, plan and always, always supervise!

Babies bring big changes for everyone in the family, but the change this brings for dogs is so often underestimated and overlooked.

The sudden arrival of this “strange creature” often means less attention, a lack of usual, predictable routine, strange noises and scents, unfamiliar equipment, perhaps restricted access to certain areas or even lots of visitors.

Just as it takes time in planning, preparing and getting ready for a baby, time should also be taken in getting a dog ready for changes this brings.

Change is not always easy. Any stress about how dogs may react will be easier to cope with by knowing you have planned and prepared well in advance.

Think about the different scenarios a dog will need to get used to and gradually introduce these so that dogs don’t negatively associate changes and different routines with a baby’s arrival.

Closely managing interactions between your dog and baby is always really important for safety, peace of mind, building positive associations and creating secure relationship.

Dogs generally adapt well to the arrival of a baby but this should never be taken for granted.

Planning and preparation are so important to help this transition be as stress free as possible for dogs.

For more detailed information - here are some links to some specialists in this field -

https://poochparenting.net/

https://cooperandkids.com/preparing-dog-new-baby/

https://www.familypaws.com/resources/

Dr Lewis Kirkham – Preparing your dog for new sounds with a step-by-step guide and baby and toy noises -
https://babyandpet.com.au/about-the-book-tell-your-dog.../

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