26/11/2024
🐾 There are many dogs who love to play with other dogs. Most of the time these may be dogs that the dog sees regularly and knows, but some adult dogs do not enjoy interactions with every dog they see.
Socialisation isn’t about every dog playing together or always getting along. It has become a very loosely used word that technically describes a specific period of puppyhood development.
Puppies approach interactions quite differently than adult dogs as they would be in a different stage of their development, and are naturally more social butterflies, however, as they grow up (like we do) some dogs start to socially decline and become more dog selective, and/ or dog tolerant. Not all dogs want another dog's nose up their bum.
👨🦰Many people believe that all dogs should be friendly and get along. Unfortunately, stereotypes from dog park culture and social media often reinforce this idea. As a result, dog guardians may unintentionally push their dogs into interactions with others in public, often saying, 'Don’t worry, my dog is friendly'...
This can be both frustrating and unsafe, especially when an on-lead dog is approached boisterously by an off-lead dog. Such situations can lead to negative interactions, as the on-lead dog may feel trapped and unable to move freely or express their body language clearly.
💥One of the ways your dog shows you that they are unhappy or uncomfortable is by trying to avoid an approaching dog, or by lashing out and being reactive. Imagine some stranger walking up to you and giving you a cuddle? I don’t know about you, but that’s not going to be something I would enjoy. Not all dogs like to greet or be greeted.
If you have a dog who does not like interacting with dogs they don’t know (especially while on leash) - that’s ok! Your dog is allowed to feel this way.
Be your dog's advocate and tell the other dog guardian to not approach you with their dog. This is being proactive, and preventing your dog from being in a situation that may cause them distress. Additionally, if you know your dog doesn't like dogs approaching them, manage your environment by choosing quieter areas, using distance, or positioning yourself between your dog and others to help them feel more secure.
❗️It is important to not allow your dog to get into the habit of greeting every dog that you walk past because:
- One day you may walk past a dog who doesn’t like being greeted which could cause your dog to get lunged at.
- It puts them at risk as you may not be able to tell if that dog is a good match in temperament for your dog.
- You don’t know if the other dog may have had a negative experience in interacting with other dogs.
- It may cause long-term nervousness if your dog is constantly being snapped at by other dogs which may lead to your dog becoming reactive.
🐕Creating space will help with making your dog or the other dog feel safe - just in case the other dog lunges. If a dog starts to approach you in the street, cross the road to the other side.
Remember, you’re not alone—if you’re finding this challenging, we’re here to help:
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