28/08/2024
This is what true socialisation looks like...
Many people think socialisation means taking their dog to the park, letting them meet every person and dog in sight, hoping they'll become "sociable." But here's the truth: socialisation isn't about interaction—it's about learning to coexist calmly.
The danger of socialisation is such a misleading word for what we truly want. Yes we want a dog that is great in different environments and around people and dogs, but the danger of letting them interact with everything is that they can become obsessed with these things.
What we really want is for our dogs to be neutral in various environments, around people, other dogs, and potential triggers. The more we expose them to these settings without direct interaction, the more they learn that not everything is scary or exciting.
This approach is what I like to call neutral generalisation instead of socialisation. It’s about teaching your dog to exist peacefully without the need to engage with everything they see. I wish I had focused on this from the start with my reactive and anxious dog, rather than jumping straight into obedience training as a fix.
Spending time in busy places, simply watching the world go by, can teach your dog to be calm, relaxed, and in control. The transformation that comes from your dog feeling comfortable in new environments and around their triggers is truly incredible.