05/03/2024
Who wants to hear a story?
Recently I (Trainer Jenny) had the opportunity to go to Costa Rica (10/10 would recommend). Although English is widely spoken, Spanish is the primary language in the country. Now, I took Spanish for a whopping 3 years in high school which was… too many years ago to count on my fingers. But, I reasoned, I’ll at least recognize some of the written words and remember some key phrases. Worst case, I can resort to Google Translate on my phone.
Ah, the optimism of ignorance.
Lucky for me, the people of Costa Rica are friendly, kind, and (most of all) patient. Throughout my trip, my inability to string a Spanish sentence together without starting and stopping was never met with frustration. My need to look around for context clues, wait for more information, or, when all else failed, find someone who spoke English to help bridge the communication gap seemed to be a source of amusement more than anything.
If only we responded to our dogs the same way when they’re learning.
Even when we are aware, on some level, that dogs do not speak English and that practicing a new cue doesn’t make them perfectly programmed robots, we find ourselves quickly frustrated by a lack of response or an incorrect response. It’s human nature to repeat ourselves when we feel like we aren’t being heard, but does that help our dogs to understand what we’re asking for? Maybe they’re trying to process what we said the first time, hoping for context cues like a hand signal or a little help from us to remember if “Pippin, come” is the same as “Here, Pippin” is the same as “Come on, Pip!”
If my fumbling, bumbling attempts at Spanish had been trampled under an onslaught of more and more words and phrases that I was still struggling to process in the first place, I know how I would react. Stressed. Frustrated. Maybe I’d give up entirely and walk away. I certainly wouldn’t be eager to continue learning and interacting in that environment.
When we repeat ourselves over and over to our dogs, changing our tone in hopes that it’ll suddenly get different results, how to our dogs respond? Stressed. Frustrated. They often ‘tap out’ and walk away or ignore us. They’re reluctant to come back and try again.
That’s not how we get dogs who love to train and work with their humans. Instead we need to clean up our communication with our dogs; be clear, give them time to think and work through the problem. If they’re struggling, take a few steps back and guide them through an easier exercise. If all else fails, find someone to help bridge the communication gap (that would be your friendly neighborhood dog trainers, get it?).
Most of all, be patient. Be kind. And stoprepeatingyourselfstoprepeatingyourselfstoprepeatingyourselfstoprepeatingyourselfstoprepeatingyourself stoprepeatingyourself!!