12/31/2023
My Winter Years
What a ride it has been since my announcement of my intention to retire and sell Happy Hoof Beats in February 2023. I had no idea how very quick the sale would be — just two months, with escrow closing in April. A kind and enthusiastic couple from California fell in love with my Pahrump property. Being horse owners and lovers of the outdoors, they were eager to relocate after looking for their perfect oasis for three years!
This is the 2nd time I entertained retirement, sold my ranch, and moved to a different community. How is it that I did not realize how much I had accumulated during the past 24 years in Pahrump? WOW! Now, I have reduced my footprint to fit a 40’ fifth wheel — named Stella — and my two horses — Mojo and Chunky Monkey. With the help of some very special family members and friends, I was able to do some serious purging, gifting, selling, and recycling of my personal and equine items, including several Goodwill trips. Lots of thoughtful contemplation. Do I keep it? Do I sell it? Do I gift? Do I throw it away? Nostalgia made it difficult to let some items go,
When I was ready to move, it took an army of volunteers and hired help to prepare HHB for the sale, pack, haul, and unload several truck and trailer loads of the items I was keeping, and to build Mojo a new corral. Finally, on April 13th, Mojo, Chunky, and I spent our first night at our new trailhead located in a small township north of Las Vegas called Corn Creek.
This island community is surrounded by the Corn Creek Desert Wildlife Refuge, which is off the grid, solar powered with miles and miles of open riding area. The days and evenings are enveloped in a quiet atmosphere, silence is wonderfully loud, crystal clear night skies with desert day and night temperatures fluctuating as much as 30 degrees. Beckoning me and Mojo to explore its open trails and history, is Corn Creek Wildlife Refuge, which is known for its historical history of Las Vegas pioneers and its prehistoric animal fossils, wetlands, and ancient rivers.
I am feeling loved, safe, grateful, and valued as I receive the many blessings that are offered to me by my dear friends Leroy (Doc) Daines and Hollie Sphar-Daines — my adopted Son and daughter-in-law — as they unselfishly share their special space with me in my retirement.
The physical and mental energy required to complete this move was much more than I had anticipated. In fact, the moving process was both daunting and exhausting as well as exhilarating and enlightening! I also experienced a minor medical delay, which was easily and successfully taken care of. Unfortunately, I have been forced to postpone the projected timeline to season, train, and compete with Mojo in Working Equitation and Extreme Mountain trail. However, my goal to compete at the regional and National level in both disciplines is still the golden ring on my carousel of life.
After an unplanned hiatus of not riding Mojo for five and a half months, the hot August days and nights found me nearing the end of unpacking, organizing, and additional — yes, additional — purging. Upon the doctor’s release, I found myself eager to begin the joy of reconnecting with Mojo and resuming his conditioning and training. Knowing what keeps me grounded is a vital part and intention of my retirement. I am reminded during each interaction with Mojo of the tremendous influence that our shared journey has on my feelings of well-being and spirituality. Being able to give myself time with family and friends, long delicious sunrise and sunset rides, specialized training time with Mojo, lessons, and clinics (giving and receiving), trail rides, and competitions are the activities that will place peace of mind, joy, curiosity, adventure, and satisfaction into each of my remaining days. Keeping me the right size. This year has clearly been a year of transition. In 2024, I am designing a year of great adventures, education, travel, and competition for me and Mojo.
While I am saying that I am ‘retired,’ I must admit that I feel alive and energized when coaching. In recent years, my development of the Seven Essential Horsemanship Skills coaching framework has given me a new and dynamic way to empower riders. It is still deeply rewarding to be a part of my students’ ‘a-ha’ moments! So, I have decided that on a limited basis, I will continue to coach individuals and groups as a traveling equestrian coach and clinician — under the name Happy Hoof Beats Equestrian Services. My goal remains to support each and every client in reaching their horsemanship possibilities. Stay tuned for the updated details, dates, and a brand-new website.
I am still unsure of the many, whos, whens, hows, and whys in this time of transition, but I have always been able to count on the unconditional and unwavering support of my amazing family and friends. All of you have made this transition possible. My heart says Thank you!
Looking forward to seeing you on the trails…
— Barbara
p.s. You can still reach me for lessons and consulting at :
(702) 327-2272
[email protected]