12/16/2023
TODAY OUR BREED EXPERT Carol Price looks at how you can best get your collie through the festive period
SURVIVING CHRISTMAS WITH YOUR COLLIE
While the festive period may be fun for us, for our dogs it can present a host of potential new stresses and challenges, which we need to be aware of; not just to keep them in a happier and more balanced state of mind, but also to prevent their behaviour
deteriorating more adversely under the pressure of it all.
The first thing to bear in mind is that Christmas social gatherings present a number of factors that put most collies under greater mental pressure; namely, far higher sensory input – in terms of noise and movement levels, and stranger visitors interacting or closely approaching them in less predictable ways – and a massive assault on the dog’s more normal, or peaceful, daily routine. And each dog may have their own individual threshold, when it comes to how much of these newer pressures they can take before it begins to more adversely affect their mental wellbeing or behaviour.
EARLY SIGNS OF RISING PRESSURE
Signs of a dog under greater mental stress include yawning, lip licking or grimacing (pulling the lips back), body tucking or hunching up and tail between the legs, or trying to get into corners, under tables or other places away from guests. You never want to get to a point where a dog has to actually bare their teeth to show how stressed they are. Young, shrill, excitable and highly animated children can also be exceptionally stressful for many dogs.
Often owners will not have seen the mental pressure or anxiety building up more steadily in their dog, or read the subtler body signals, mentioned earlier, their dog gave to convey this. Then when the pressure is finally released in some form of aggression, it comes as a greater shock to them. And the dog always gets blamed for their ‘bad’ behaviour.
SENSORY AND SOCIAL LIMITATIONS
The longer you live with a collie, the more you get to understand their own more individual limitations, when it comes to how they cope with newer people visiting the home, higher noise levels – or other sources of enhanced sensory stimulation – higher social ‘crowding’ or interaction with others and greater assaults on their need for same-ness or the maintenance of more rigid daily routines. And some collies will always cope far better with all these things than others.
Either way, however, you should manage Christmas for your dog according to what they can more individually tolerate, mentally, not according to how you yourself would prefer your dog to behave. I know so many owners who have a desire for their dog to be much more ‘friendly’ or outgoing towards less familiar visitors to the home, or be far less ‘stressy’ about all the sensory mayhem that Christmas can involve in many households, without considering whether their dog actually has the intrinsic mental equipment to deliver either of these things.
PLANNING AHEAD
So prior to Christmas gatherings beginning in your home, the best advice I would give – as with any other sources of potential stress or anxiety - is to set up some more recognised ‘refuge’ zone for your dog; some safe place where they can go whenever they want to. It could be a covered crate, or bed under a table, or any other place where your dog usually chooses to go when they feel anxious or under par or just want to be left alone. And when they go to this place it is vital that no one else disturbs them, until they feel ready to come out again.
If your dog has particular trouble with visitors to the home, you may also want to separate them even further by placing a dog gate between them and their safe place, and the visitors in the rest of your home. Additionally understand that for some collies, higher anxiety or insecurity – i.e. about visitors – can lead to higher reactivity levels, like growling or snapping or lunging out to nip once their mental pressure gets to a certain height.
Each time visitors come, it can also be really helpful to make some immediate positive connection in your dog's mind with their arrival - like some extra tasty treat, or bone or chew, immediately thrown into their safe area, for them to get and enjoy, and forever after associate with the arrival of visitors. Be EXTRA careful however, to only connect such rewards immediately to the ARRIVAL of visitors and not AFTER they have ALREADY shown more nervous or aggressive behaviour towards them, as this just gives more mixed messages, or could result in rewarding/reinforcing the wrong behaviours in your dog.
CHRISTMAS CRACKERS
Another question I would ask is, Christmas crackers – do you really need them, or need to pull them within more direct earshot of your poor dog? I know many collies who are utterly terrified of the noise made by these things. Plus you do not want your dog to make any more lasting negative connection between the fear caused by cracker noise, and the people or scenario – i.e. Christmas gathering – immediately in view when this fearful experience occurred.
MAINTAINING ROUTINE
As well as giving your dog a safe place to retire to, whenever the Christmas pressures get too much, it can also really help to maintain as much as you can of your dog’s nor-mal daily routines. And keep things like walking and feeding times more or less the same for them, regardless of what else is going on. Dogs who have been for a good run before visitors arrive are also clearly going to settle down better somewhere than those who have not. It does not matter if the walks are shorter than normal. Just that they happen at roughly the usual time. Measures like these help preserve a greater sense of security in your dog, when everything else going on around them seems much more worryingly ‘different’ or less usual.
OTHER DANGERS
Over and above potential stress caused by extra noise, commotion, visitors and changes of routine at Christmas, also be aware of the amount of toxic dangers that exist for dogs at this time of year. Everything from fruit cake and mince pies to chocolate, ivy, holly pine Christmas trees and tinsel. For a fuller list of things that can be far more dangerous for your dog to eat at Christmas, see the links below.
https://www.thekennelclub.org.uk/health-and-dog-care/health/health-and-care/a-z-of-health-and-care-issues/christmas-foods-what-not-to-give-dogs-at-christmas/
https://www.bluecross.org.uk/advice/dog/christmas-dangers-for-dogs #:~:text=Christmas%20pudding%20and%20mince%20pies,dogs%20whether%20cooked%20or%20uncooked.
The last place you ever want to be over Christmas is at the emergency vets with a very sick dog, so please heed the advice given carefully, as to what they should avoid.
Of course you may be someone who has a collie who loves visitors and Christmas and everything that happens around it, but we cannot assume that all collies will be the same. Once again it is a question of tailoring the festive experience to what individual dogs can cope with, if we want greater peace, happiness and harmony to reign in all collie households this Christmas. Which I would dearly wish for you all.
All text © Carol Price 2023
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